After coaching hundreds of people on this, I think it’s fair to say that the one of the hardest things people find about trying to use online marriage websites and apps like MuzzMatch is the time wasters.
Sure, the creeps are bad too – but you can just delete and report them.
But the Time Wasters are like wolves in sheep’s clothing.
They appear to be decent guys. And you think you’re doing the right thing by going along with them, waiting for them to make the next move, BUT…
…There is no next move.
Oh my gosh. It’s completely maddening. It can drive you crazy, because these (usually guys) can waste so much of your time and it never actually goes anywhere.
What do I mean by time wasters?
There are some guys out there who, for some reason that boggles the mind, will text you for weeks, months, even years, but they’ll never call you on the phone.
And there are some guys who will talk to you on the phone, but never meet up in person.
And there are some guys who will meet up in person and “date” you, but never take it any further or propose.
And there are some guys who will propose and get engaged – and you guessed it – that engagement drags on and on, and you never end up getting married.
That’s why one of the most powerful ways to speed up the entire process of meeting the right person is to follow a framework that cuts out the Time Wasters as fast as possible.
The basic approach is to have extremely strict RULES for how long you’ll do each activity with someone, before completely cutting them out (no matter how ‘nice’ they appear to be).
There’s also a very specific ‘script’ that you can use to message the guy to make him decide whether to move things forward or not – so that you end the pointless otherwise-never-ending communication, without any hard feelings and with total clarity that it was never going anywhere with him.
If you want to know exactly how to do that, along with example scripts and all, then check out the Meet Him & Marry Him program. It’s only available at a massive discount for a couple more days:
