A question came up on a group coaching call recently:
“How do you parent when you have no example? The way we grew up, with Pakistani parents who were really strict and didn’t really connect with us or do any of the things that we now know we’re supposed to do… things that are better for the kids in the long run… and more Islamic – like, how do we not just flip out when we see our kids doing something wrong?
If you were brought up with a blueprint that was just strict and used fear, how can you do things differently with your own kids? What do you do if the only blueprint you’ve got is bad parenting?!”
MY ANSWER:
“Burn the “Blueprint” in the fire of your Presence.”
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