If your wife’s been acting a little strange and moody today, it’s becauseâŚ
You forgot!
Today is âYawm al Hubbâ, as my wife likes to call it, ie Valentine’s Day.
Now there are a lot of people in the world who will try to convince you that Valentine’s Day is a bidah, an innovation in the religion of Islam and that in Islam, there are two days of celebration, the two Eids.
And no other day, especially not one created by Hallmark, is meant to be celebrated.
There is a word for this type of person:
âManâ
And as much as I may try to convince my wife about the logic of this argument, she has – through her behavior, intonation and certain looks she has given me over the years – made it completely clear that my legal reasoning is completely invalid.
Valentine’s Day is not about Hallmark. It’s not about receiving flowers and chocolates. It’s about the other 364 days in the year where you didn’t give your wife flowers and chocolates.
Itâs kind of like Judgement Day for your marriage (right up there with your anniversary)⌠and I have been found as guilty as any mortal male over the years for skipping it.
This email is primarily a reminder, just in case any man out there is clinging for dear life trying to figure out why his wife is so mad at him, when it’s a complete religious innovatation, and Hallmark-invented facade to celebrate this day.
My advice:
You ain’t gonna win this one.
Just buy the woman flowers.
If youâre a woman who doesn’t have a husband who buys her flowers, then you might want to check out the Conscious Marriage Workshop (or at least get him to check it out):
And if you are a woman who doesn’t have a husband in the first place, let alone one that’s buying you flowers, then you might want to check out the website below and go through the training I prepared that has helped hundreds of Muslim women find and marry their ideal partner.
In honor of Yawm Al Hubb, I’m doing a special deal on all of my âLove Attractionâ programs that are designed to help you meet and marry your optimal spouse, and you can check it out by watching the webinar:
