Since I got married last year, a lot of single Muslim men and women ask me and my wife how we met.
The short, boring answer is : “We met at a conference”.
But the truth is, I don’t think they really want to know how we met. I think a lot of times, what they really want to know is: “what happened, how did it happen, and where’s the best place for me to go if I want a similar result?”
That’s certainly what I wanted to know when I spoke to couples who seemed to be happily married.
Often times when you ask this, you’ll either get the boring straightforward answer, or some romantic love story.
But either way, what you probably won’t get is a step-by-step process that you could apply to your own life. Because, when it comes down to it, there is no ONE way that people meet and get married. And, there is no ONE place where you can go to meet your ideal spouse.
Instead, there are a handful of qualities that you need to develop and demonstrate to a potential spouse, and there are some changes you need to make to your lifestyle so that you’re WAY more likely to meet a lot of great people… who could be potential partners… so that you can finally meet the one who you’re destined to marry, insha’Allah.
Look at it this way:
With a bit of thinking in advance, you could probably quite quickly fill your calendar with a couple of social events each week where you’ll meet loads of interesting, inspiring, successful Muslims. And, if you do that regularly, it will only be a matter of time before you meet someone who catches your eye.
From that point, if you’re a guy, all you need to do is demonstrate the 7 qualities pretty much all Muslim women are looking for in a man, and voila! You can go from ‘salam’ to ‘soulmate’ in a matter of months.
In fact, I have an event coming up in the last weekend of April (Fri 26th – Sun 28th), which is a perfect one to add to your social calendar… especially if you’re looking for a spouse who’s interested in connecting with Allah and becoming their best self.
And, to prepare yourself for when you meet her, (and to get your offical, early-bird, heavily discounted event invitation), I highly recommend you check out this web-class, tomorrow at 7pm UK time:
Meet Her & Marry Her – How To Find, Attract & Marry Your “Dream Wife”
P.S. Single Ladies, the same applies to you. Mark those dates in your calendar, and in the meanwhile start thinking about how you could set up your social calendar so that it becomes absolutely inevitable that you ‘bump into’ your spouse over the next few months, insha’Allah. And, you can attend the web-class to observe, as long as you’re aware that it will be focused on men, and during the Q & A segment, I’ll be answering the questions men have first.
