The best month of the year is coming up.
You might have wondered what you’re meant to do during Ramadan if you’re single.
Because the truth is, the only kind of date you’re having during Ramadan is…
A medjool date, to open your fast with.
However, it’s important to know that Ramadan is still the BEST possible time to attract and seal the deal on your marriage search.
How do you do that, if you’re not even meeting people?
Simple.
You do exactly what I did the Ramadan before I met Rachida, and exactly what she did that same Ramadan, before she met me. That’s right, we both coincidentally (as if there’s such a thing as coincidences!), before even meeting each, did this same Ramadan ‘practice’.
Before Fajr, during the last hour of the night, before having suhoor, I would pray a couple of rakas (prayer-cycles), then ask with total sincerity, forehead on the ground, that Allah give me the best possible wife – the one out of all the people on planet Earth who was the best match for me, and for whom I would be the best possible husband.
I was very careful not to ask for a specific person.
There were a couple of people I had my eye on, but I didn’t want to ‘pollute’ the prayer by asking for any individual, because at the end of the day, you never really know who the best partner is.
Only Allah does.
And that’s the point.
This prayer has a powerful quality to it. Because when things worked out beautifully between me and Rachida, I had a certainty in my heart that Allah actually did answer the prayer.
And you know what that does?
As well as having your prayer answered, you gain an extra layer of certainty and confidence that the person you’re married to, for better or worse, is actually the best possible person you could be married to.
No second guessing. No wondering.
The other huge “secret” about that Ramadan prayer is that I was in a very high-vibe state of mind. It was one of the best Ramadan’s of my life. I spent the whole month in deep spiritual connection with Allah.
In fact, shortly before that Ramadan I spent a month at the “Rihla” course with Shaykh Hamza Yusuf & Co., preparing myself spiritually and getting re-connected to the spiritual depth and beauty of Islam.
The point I’m making is this:
The best way for a single Muslim to do Ramadan is to get off all the apps, get off the “dating” scene, and focus completely on your spiritual connection with Allah – and do one thing only:
Make the ‘Optimal Partner’ prayer.
Leave the marriage search to Allah, and take care of the one thing you do have some control over – your level of devotion.
He is the only one who controls the outcome.
If you also want to make sure that you are ‘tying the camel’ while trusting and connecting with Allah… then the best thing you can do before Ramadan starts is get your hands on the “Meet Him & Marry Him” free training, start exploring it now, like an early Eid present… and then be ready to dive in and fully implement the full step-by-step program as soon as Ramadan ends.
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