As a Relationship Coach, I’ve worked with many Muslim women who were struggling to find ‘the one’ but after working with me, went on to find their perfect match and get married, alhamdulillah.
And there’s one thing most people overlook when it comes to finding love:
Options.
You have way more than you think.
Now I’m not advocating serial dating here… instead I want to highlight an important fact.
You might have started out with ‘high standards’ when you began your journey to finding love… but over time, after having no luck, and after enough pessimistic conversations with ‘auntie-gees’, you might just have let those standards slip a little. In fact, you might even be limiting yourself only to the current ‘pool’ of opportunities around you.
What this means is that you might end up choosing a spouse from whatever pool of options you currently have – regardless of whether or not they’re really suitable for you.
Single women can then very easily end up settling for a ‘Mr He’ll Do’…rather than going on to find their actual ‘Mr Right’. Which is a shame, because it’s just as easy for Allah to gift you your ideal spouse as it is for Allah to gift you an ‘okay’ spouse. Be very careful what you’re praying for.
A lot of people can easily feel down when they’re not having any luck finding ’the one’. But if they were able to see past these emotions for a moment, they would see that there’s actually a very logical solution to their problem:
Increase your pool of options.
You don’t need to settle for Mr He’ll Do.
And if you’d like help on getting super specific on how to find your optimal husband, then you’re going to love the new and updated version of “Meet and Marry The One”. I’ll be re-teaching it live in next month’s Ocean Live sessions, so you can get all your questions answered and finally get this area of your life handled once and for all.
