I’ve often heard this phrase from a client. Usually a strong woman, who’s decided that men are no good, that they no longer need a man in their life and can absolutely go it alone. And whilst they’re at it, they’ll give the middle finger to any guy that argues otherwise.
(Ah, what a joy to be a relationship coach!)
And although I agree with the statement itself, that you don’t ‘need’ a man, it’s for a very different reason to the one above.
I’ve coached many women over the years who have all faced the same challenge. They want to get married and are having absolutely no luck in doing so. Finding a suitable partner has for them become almost as difficult as climbing an impossibly high mountain. And so it’s no surprise that they feel like giving up on the whole search and resigning themselves to a life of singledom.
But they don’t.
Because they innocently believe that unless they get married, they won’t ever be happy.
And this is where I’m going to sound all pro-feminist and say “Girrrrl, you don’t neeed a man!” (while clicking my finger and turning my head).
But let me be very specific about what I mean by this. You don’t need a man to be happy. You don’t need to get married in order to feel happy. Because…
…that’s just not where happiness comes from.
And after going through trainings like this one, my clients look at their search for a life partner in a very different way:
Do my clients want to get married? Yes.
Do they want a man in their lives? Yes.
Do they need that man in their lives in order to feel complete, content, happy and fulfilled? Absolutely not.
In fact, they achieve this empowered, confident state without needing anyone to give them anything.
Because, when you deeply understand the truth of where your feelings come from and where they absolutely do not come from, you’re naturally more confident, more present, more likeable and way more in tune with yourself and what you really need from a future partner (and it’s not feelings).
And this has had a powerful effect on your search for a spouse…
Nothing is more attractive to a potential husband (or wife!) than natural confidence, that’s free from arrogance. And by the time I’m done with you, you’ll be oozing this quality.
Which means you’ll be in the best position to choosewhich partner would be most suitable for you from a selection of potential interests, instead of unconsciously trying to chase them.
To experience this profound inner-change for yourself and make your search for love more of a walk in the park and less of a mountain climb, join my upcoming event:
Meet & Marry The One: How To Find, Attract & Marry The Love Of Your Life
Peace, Love & Blessings.
Mamoon
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