If there is one thing every guy in the world looking for a wife hates, it’s connecting with, and talking to a really attractive woman, having deep, meaningful conversations with her, having a really good laugh together, and then out of nowhere….
BAM!
She talks about how it’s nice to have a ‘FRIEND’ like you.
My dear respected sisters, let me give you a glimpse into the mind of a Muslim man…
He. Doesn’t. Want. To Be. Your. Friend.
To be honest with you, even my wife tried doing this with me when we started talking.
Fortunately, because of some of the insider info I’m going to share on Thursday’s web-class, it didn’t work with me though.
Here’s What Happened:
I made it super clear to my wife right from the start that we’re talking for one purpose: to figure out if we’d be a good match to be married.
I know by Western standards this would be weird to talk about right at the beginning, but honestly, something women really appreciate is clarity on your intentions. (Again, gentlemen, if you want more on how to bring this up without it being awkward… come to Thursday’s Webclass).
Anyway, I made this really clear from the start, but after 2 weeks of talking on the phone, just before our first official ‘date’ or ‘meeting’ as she liked to call it, she said something that made alarm sirens go off all over London (at least in my head). She said something to the affect of:
“You know, I really enjoy talking to you, and if we meet in person, and it doesn’t work out, at least we can continue being friends.”
What I said next made sure I would get out of the friend zone faster than Usain Bolt doing the 100m dash with a gun pointed to his head.
It was one sentence that every guy needs to know, write down, memorize and rehearse.
Because quite frankly if you don’t say the same thing, or something very similar, she will almost certainly talk with you more and more, while becoming less and less attracted to you.
My wife and I now joke about this moment, and when it comes up she often looks back and says that by saying that one thing, she suddenly became a LOT more attracted to me.
I’d love to share that one-liner with you.
But, I’m afraid you’re going to have to stay stuck in the Friend Zone with every woman you meet, at least until Thursday at 7pm UK time.
Here’s where to go to free yourself:
Meet Her & Marry Her – How To Find, Attract & Marry Your “Dream Wife”
