Note: This is a potentially life-changing email for single people.
So how do you find love in lockdown? You’re not even meant to leave your house – how could you possibly go out into the world to find the love of your life?
This is a problem that a lot of single people have been struggling with over the last year or so. And the truth of the matter is, the lockdown may be here to stay for a few months more, despite the vaccine. More importantly, you might actually stand a better chance of finding love during this period – and you’ll soon see why.
So how do you do it?
How is it even possible that somebody who’s in their twenties or thirties or older and really wants to get married, can do it even during this sad state of affairs?
The answer is simple.
If you want to find love in lockdown, you need to do the exact same things that you would do if there wasn’t lockdown. Now, I’m not suggesting you break the law here. I’m merely suggesting you go through a strategic five-phase plan to Meet and Marry The One.
The first step of course, is having the initial contact with someone.
Now in the past, before the lockdown, that would usually mean going to social events and networking and meeting people in person. And that is still possible to some extent – marriage events and social networking events are still happening, but they’re happening on Zoom.
I highly recommend doing those if the alternative is doing nothing. However, there’s a much simpler, easier, more obvious way, but fair warning: this might make you cringe.
There are apps, including “Muzmatch”, “Salaam” and many others, and there are websites like singlemuslim.com and shadi.com. Now, I know you’ve tried these things before, and I know you probably didn’t love how it all turned out. You probably met some weirdos and got offended at what people did and said, and got shocked at the pitiful state of some people’s minds.
However, although you’ll definitely meet some of the very, very wrong people, given enough time, patience and perseverance, you’ll also, eventually meet pretty decent prospects on these platforms. At that point, you move on to the next step, which is to (as quickly as possible), have telephone and Zoom conversations.
Obviously, the idea is that you meet in person, but to start with, you probably want to meet online. Eventually, if all goes well, you’ll end up dating.
Now, how could you possibly ‘date’ in lockdown?
I know a guy who got engaged recently. He met his partner in lockdown and simply invited her to go for walks in the park and to go on a walking dates. Not only is this far better for your health and wellbeing – if you’re a guy, this will probably save you a fair bit of cash on buying everyone dinner 😉
And, if the rules in your area are super-strict (bare in mind, people are reading this newsletter all over the world), then you can “Zoom Date” until the rules loosen up just enough to go out for a walk together.
All this gives you a great opportunity to actually start meeting prospects, and potentially find love while a lot of other single people (your ‘competition’), are still locked up at home. That’s why it might even be easier for you to find love now than it was before the lockdown – other people aren’t doing it as much.
Eventually, after finding a good prospect and the first few “meetings” or “dates”, you’ll want to go through the other three phases of meeting and marrying the one that are all covered in our super popular online program that’s helped dozens of people find love and live happily ever after.
