A while back I was coaching a Muslim woman who’s looking for her optimal partner and she told me that somebody asked her out on a date.
And it was literally the best date ever.
They went walking in nature. They’ve visited some beautiful scenery. At one point he unexpectedly pulled out a sheet and spread it on the floor along with a picnic basket. They talked about interesting topics. He took charge of the entire experience. It was by all measures, a perfect date, as far as this woman was concerned.
And the conclusion of this date was:
She dumped him.
Why?
What could possibly have gone wrong?
The truth is that he didn’t do anything wrong. He did everything perfectly right. In fact, kudos to this brother, because most Muslim men who are trying to find their partner do almost everything wrong based on the horror stories I hear from my female clients.
What happened from this experience is that the woman genuinely realised she just wasn’t into him.
He was a great guy, and insha’Allah, he’ll make a great husband for someone else, but not for her.
The moment she told me the story, I suddenly felt like a very proud coach. It means that her standards are exactly where they should be. She wasn’t going to rush into a relationship just because she thought she needed to, or because of insecurity or self doubt. And most importantly, she had firmly decided she would only marry someone she was genuinely attracted to, inside and out. Someone who not only knows how to create a wonderful date experience but matches all of her other criteria too.
I am certain that by continuing on her path of trusting her intuition and seeking divine guidance every step of the way, it is absolutely inevitable that my client will soon be joining the ranks of hundreds of clients I’ve served over the years and will invite me to her wedding with her optimal partner.
And if you want be like her – in a position where you’re spoilt for choice and are being asked on perfect dates instead of Muz-Match inspired nightmare scenarios – then check out this brand new version of my “Meet & Marry The One” personal coaching session, where I give you the step-by-step Roadmap for you to meet and marry your optimal partner:
