True story.
A while back, a lady (not sure she wants me naming her) was travelling on a train to come to one of my live “Psychological Switch” events in London. (This was back before lockdown when I was doing a LOT more events in person.)
She was on the train down from Manchester and in her mind there was one question constantly repeating in her mind:
“How do I tell him I’ve finally had enough and I really do want a divorce…?”
The biggest problem was, they had 3 great kids together and she didn’t want to negatively impact their lives.
But, she just wasn’t fulfilled.
She said that he would often be cold, distant and not pay her any attention or open up about his feelings. (Sometimes she wondered if he had any!). Technically, he didn’t do anything wrong. He was a provider and a good man… but how can you live with someone for the rest of your life, who you can’t deeply connect with?
The poor guy had absolutely no idea what was about to hit him!
Fortunately, after a couple of days learning the “Psychological Switch” and the implications it has for relationships… something pretty powerful happened.
She came to me on the last day, when we were getting feedback and she was almost in tears.
“I can’t believe I was ever considering leaving him! I soooo wasn’t seeing things clearly!”
This was about 5 years ago… and they’re now truly happily married and doing better than ever.
What did she discover? What was the big insight saved her marriage from divorce?
It’s one of the 7 insights I’ll be sharing next Thursday at 7pm UK time in my upcoming online workshop:
The Conscious Marriage Workshop
Check out the details here:
