Much of the world of personal development and coaching is founded upon what I call the “ego based model”.
It’s as if they say…
“You want results. You don’t have the results you want. I do have the results you want. So you should hire me to enlighten you about how to be an awesome results-getter like me. And if you try using the techniques I recommend, and you still don’t get the results that I have, then I’m afraid to say… you’re broken.”
The more ‘enlightened’ teachers will take it a step further…
“Oh, don’t worry. It’s not your fault that you’re broken. You need to do some mindset techniques and you need to work on yourself and you need to heal yourself and you need to learn all about your personality type…” and so on and so forth.
Well, I’ve got a newsflash for you:
You are not broken.
You are already whole, healed and complete.
The fact you may not have all of the results you want in life is neither here nor there. You may need to upgrade some skills or create a more effective strategy if those goals are important to you. But you’re totally capable of doing that, and it’s got absolutely nothing to do with how good you are or how broken or unbroken you are.
The reason I don’t give people any psychological techniques to do on themselves is because they’re all based on the assumption that your mind isn’t already working perfectly well. They’re based on the assumption that you are broken and you need fixing.
But what if you’re not, and were never, broken and don’t actually need fixing…?
Virtually everyone I work with experiences enormous relief when they discover that rather than giving you more techniques to do on yourself, I simply point out the way that your mind already works and has always worked and as a result of understanding that, you get to experience all of the benefits that people claim those techniques will give you… without having to do any work on yourself at all.
Just as it’s a great relief to a sailor in the dark ages to discover that he doesn’t need to be afraid of falling off the face of the earth, because the Earth is round…
…In the same way, it’s a huge relief for most people to discover that they’re not broken and don’t need fixing, because the mind already works perfectly well, on the level of principle.
Allah didn’t make any mistakes with you.
You are perfect and you work perfectly, just the way you are, with no further intervention needed.
You may have experienced terrible things, but none of them ever had the power to break you mentally, emotionally or spiritually, on the level of principle. If you feel like something ‘broke’ you, a gentle reminder of how your mind works in reality, can instantly get you back to being your best, ie. get you back to your True (indestructible) Self – which has always been there, whether you realised it or not.
If you want to know how that’s possible and how it works, it’s time for you to book a session with a Certified Switch Coach.
I promise, no matter what you bring to the table, you’ll never be able to ‘break’ your coach:
