When you’re single, it can seem like a long, never-ending journey – from meeting someone who’s not a complete weirdo… all the way through to figuring out whether or not they could be a good life partner, and then deciding whether or not you really want them to be the one you spend the rest of your life with.
And unfortunately, generally speaking, advice for Muslims on this is virtually non-existent.
For some mystical reason, Muslims are single, then suddenly get married… but nothing ever happened in between.
If you want any information or advice on how to effectively find, attract, get commitment from, and ultimately marry someone, there are lots of books – but they certainly don’t take Muslim, Arab, or Indian subcontinent cultures into account.
However, there is a path. And it does work.
In fact, over the years, I’ve discovered that there are 10 discrete steps that we need to go through in order to go from ‘salam’ all the way to being married to your soulmate.
Everyone who’s happily married will probably notice that they went through these steps, even if some of them were quick, or they got lucky and skipped over one or two and got away with it. And everybody who’s married to the wrong person will look over these steps and slap their forehead when they realize they missed an important one.
I’ve been sharing this with clients during one-to-one sessions while helping them figure out how they should respond to texts, whether they should follow up with someone or wait for them to follow up, and how to bring their parents on board – and much, much more.
If you want to know exactly what the steps are, then you’re in luck.
Earlier this week, I recorded a brand new training for single Muslim women.
It’s called:
“The Meet Him & Marry Him Roadmap: The 10-Step Plan To Go From ‘Salam’ To Soulmate”
In this short, but powerful and comprehensive free webclass, you’ll discover…
- How to avoid time-wasters and preserve your energy during the early phases of getting to know new people (so many women get tripped up by time-wasting losers – and frankly, “ain’t nobody got time for that!”)
- The exact prayer I made before I met my wife (and that she also made at around the same time!), that I now recommend to all my clients because it puts your mind at ease and your heart in the right place
- The 3 biggest psychological and practical barriers on the journey to finding love – and how to overcome them
- The 5 most common places you’re most likely to meet high quality Muslim men – and how to set your life up to make meeting a great match inevitable
- How the entire 10-step journey flows, step by step so you can easily identify where you’re getting tripped up and get specific guidance on how to fix it
- How to know if you’ve “tied your camel” sufficiently, so you can let go and confidently leave the rest to Allah, the Most Loving.
- The simple 4-question criteria that instantly lets you know if you should keep a relationship going… and that you can use to compare 2 or more “potentials”
- When and how to use a “Compatibility Assessment” – and where to get the one I use with clients
- And much, much more…
This is an action packed web-class that has my latest insights into the Muslim marriage scene – after spending over 15 years coaching people on it.
It’s totally free and available here, for now:
