I got married young, to the wrong person. You couldn’t have convinced me of that at the time, but the truth is, I had a terrible train wreck of a marriage. And nothing seemed to fix it. I tried therapy, couples counselling & a lot of different types of relationship coaching. Eventually, we parted ways and I experienced the raw emotion and grief of a divorce. I was stuck in that state, unable to get over it and without any hope of being able to attract someone new, for about 9 months, before something seemingly miraculous happened.
I uncovered something that made all my mental & emotional pain begin to disappear. As I went deeper into the understanding and psychological principle that gave me relief, I realised that it wasn’t going away. It was a permanent shift in consciousness after which my life would never be the same.
It’s not that I never had a negative thought or feeling again… it’s that I had a fully embodied understanding of what was causing it (and not causing it), which made the entire spectrum of human emotion much easier to handle…
I went from being an unhappy, discontent, insecure, unattractive relationship loser with a ton of emotional baggage… to a clear headed, genuinely content, completely confident man. And it turns out, that’s quite attractive.
After that life-changing insight, I soon started seeing someone new, which gave me more evidence that whatever had previously been blocking me from attracting a partner had cleared up. That was the first time I could see myself being happily married, partly because we were better matched, and partly because I could now clearly see that happiness is an inside job. However, I intuitively knew that she was not the one. In fact, it would take another couple of years before “the one” showed up.
Her name was Rachida. And she’s now the mother of my beautiful twin boys.
In case you’re wondering, the “something” that made all that mental & emotional paid disappear is what I know teach as, “The Psychological Switch”. I’ve shared it with thousands of people around the world and heard so many stories of people’s lives changing when they find their inner switch and flip it.
But here’s the best part:
Not only was The Psychological Switch essential in my journey to drop my insecurities and attract the love of my life… but it’s still as important and relevant in our marriage today as it was when I discovered it. It’s what lets me quiet my ego for long enough to listen deeply to her. It’s what gives me the insight to know when I’ve been in the wrong and the foresight to see and address problems before they arise. Above all, it gives me the ability to not make her responsible for my feelings or walk on egg shells under the illusion that I can cause hers.
There are many more benefits, but the best thing is to experience it for yourself and see the impact it has on your marriage and your love life.
If you’d like to do that, you can get a coaching session with me on one of the pages below:
If you’re married and want to improve it: www.mamoonyusaf.com/MME
If you’re single and want to attract the one that’s optimal for you: www.mamoonyusaf.com/MMTO
